She might be judging by the number of times I see this question asked on forums or through email. Many women can orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but find it difficult to have an orgasm during sex. The result is women who are frustrated and disappointed with their man’s bedroom performance (or lack thereof!).
Your Roadmap To Giving Her Earth Shattering Orgasms
There are 2 ingredients to giving your woman an orgasm during intercourse:
1. Creating intimacy and desire.
Women need to feel a sense of intimacy in order to orgasm. For women, sex is more mental than physical. If your lady is stressed, upset with how her body looks, mad at you, etc. she will not be able to orgasm very easily (or maybe not at all). It is up to you to make her feel comfortable, relaxed and at ease.
You also need to create a connection with her. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been dating or been married, your woman still needs to feel that connection before she will be “in the mood.” Try doing something nice for her like running an errand for her or taking care of some issue that is stressing her out.
Desire is also a key. If you have trouble giving your lady an orgasm during sex, you need to put some extra effort into making her desire you. Try sending some suggestive or downright dirty text messages to her throughout the day. Try wearing clothes you know she likes on you. Draw out the foreplay until she begins to threaten you with physical harm if you don’t satisfy her right this instant .
2. Hitting the right spot.
Many women, though not all, have what is known as the G Spot. The most common scientific theory is that the G Spot is actually the base of the clitoris. If you slide your fingers about 2-3 inches in with your lady on her back and you curl your fingers upward toward the ceiling, that is the G Spot. A recent study showed that women who have a G Spot have somewhat thicker skin in that area, somewhat like a callus. It is subtle, but noticeable if you know what you are feeling for.
Now that you know where it is, how do you make sure you are getting to that spot?? Yet another scientific study has shown that men who are most successful at giving their women orgasms during sex have erections that are shaped a special way. Their erections point straight up toward the ceiling and are curved slightly back toward their stomachs.
If you think about where the G Spot is, this makes perfect sense.
What to do if you do not have this type of erection? Fear not my friends.
An easy way to hit this spot is to prop up your lady’s hips while she is on her back. This way, you are aiming directly for the G Spot. One way to do this is to put some pillows under her butt. You can experiment with the number of pillows and the angle.
A more precise way of making sure you hit the G Spot is to use a Wedge. The wedge is scientifically designed to ensure her hips are at exactly the right angle. Women have described using the wedge as going to “G Spot heaven.” If you want to be the guy that takes her there, seriously consider adding this tool to your orgasm arsenal.